THURSDAY THOUGHTS - Someone Wiser Than Us Is Calling the Shots

Guest Post -

I have come to the conclusion lately that the many phases of life hold countless lessons, experiences and opportunities for each of us. Since my mother’s passing about three weeks ago, we have experienced the stinging fingers of grief because we miss her so much. However, we also now have an opportunity to live our lives in a manner that would make her proud as we move forward.

I have found myself most grateful for the kind expressions of love and support that have come to me and members of my family. They have taught me in a most tangible and real way that people care and have encouraged me to show more charity and kindness in the future.

My mother died of Cancer and that fact makes me even more grateful that three years after my Breast Cancer surgery, I am Cancer free. I consider my health a priceless gift.

I am blessed to have a wonderful job in this crazy economy, and I am able to work with people who have become some of my dearest friends. They covered my shifts for two weeks while we took care of my mother and helped to plan funeral arrangements. I have learned from them to make a concerted effort to be a better friend whenever I can to those who may need support or encouragement or even just a friendly smile.

Last week I learned that my son, Nick, and his wife Kimberly are expecting their first baby in August. This news made me giddy with excitement. I pondered on the wide range of emotions we have experienced in such a short time; the end if one life and the beginning of another. It has taught me that we never know what is in store for us. E. Stanley Jones once said: “I don’t know what the future holds, but I know who holds the future.” Thank Heavens someone wiser than us is calling the shots. That fact gives me great comfort.

Kathy Christensen